Therapy: Beware Of The Emotional Rollercoaster!

Is it just me or is being in therapy a bit like riding an emotional rollercoaster? Lately my sessions have felt a bit like it! But actually the longer-term therapy can be likened to a ride on The Nemesis too.

You get in/on the ride car, strap in tight, you know that it’s secure and safe and, yet, there’s a part of you that doubts whether the harness will hold you in when the big loops come. The ride attendant tells you to ‘enjoy the ride’ all the while laughing inside as they knowingly send you to your doom – Mach 3 forces on your body and fear central await.

Then you’re off. There’s the initial chugging slowly and slightly nervously upwards with that click click click noise. You can’t really see where you’re going and the weight of your body is forced back into the seat. You wonder what it’ll look like at the top when you reach the pinnacle of the first ascent?


Everything stops for a moment as you are briefly afforded a moment to look around and assess what lies ahead.

In that moment your brain goes ‘Why the hell am I doing this to myself? This is madness! Is it even safe? I’m gonna die…’ but before you complete your mental calculation of the situation the car starts hurtling off at break-neck speed downwards. ‘I’m not ready yet!’ but all you can do is hang on tight as the white knuckle ride is now in progress! ‘AAAArgggghhhh! Help me!’

You survive the first terrifying loop, the next hard bend, the change in direction and then doing the whole ride backwards, not being able to see where you’re going. At times it feels like you may fall out the car but then the adrenaline kicks in, and bloody hell! -you start to enjoy bits of the ride, you settle into it, it’s not ‘fun’ as such, but whilst it’s fear-making it’s also kind exhilarating putting your body and mind through it.

And then it’s time to get off. The ride is over. It’s actually a bit disappointing. Just at the point you had felt sort of comfortable on the ride, relaxed into it a little it’s time to unclip and go. Damn it! You sometimes find getting off the ride your legs are a bit jelly and your head is a bit dizzy but you kind of know that you want to do it again. So, you have a choice to make, do you leave the theme park or should you run round again, line up again and have another go? ‘Hell yeah, let’s do this!’

Second time around it’s a bit less scary, actually. Maybe you don’t need to grab on for dear life now. Maybe you’ll be brave and put your hands up instead! The chug- chug- chug upwards is a bit nervy again. The view down is a little more scary than you remembered, but once you get going it’s ok isn’t it? So you repeat this for a while, keep riding. It’s all good.


But then you decide you want to up the ante. It’s time. You’re a bit bored of that ride. You know it so well that it’s kind of like going through the motions. You’re ready for a bigger challenge. There’s a new ride. A huge one, actually. You think you can handle it, though. How different can it be to the last one, really?

So you line up. Get on. Clip in. Get ready go… ‘Enjoy the ride!’ says the attendant. You’re complacent. You’ve been riding rollercoasters for a while haven’t you? You shoot them a smile and say ‘ahh this is nothing’ and then you’re off…

Only this ride is not like the last one is it? It’s much much higher. It’s faster. You’re sliding out your seat. You grip on tightly and still feel like you’re going fall out. It’s weird because the person next to you seems to be fine, enjoying the ride even. They’re laughing and whooping with joy whilst your scream ‘Stop the ride! I want to get off!!!’ is stuck in your throat.

There are parts of the ride that are in the dark – you weren’t expecting that. Your brain feels like it’s rattling in your head. There is no adrenaline joy it’s just pure fear and as you reach the end, and the ride comes to a stop, there is no elation, you’re just thankful to have survived. You need to get off quick because you’re ready to puke.

As you slowly find your feet having exited the ride you realise that perhaps it’s time to take things a little more slowly, time for a spell on the magic tea cups?…or really, maybe it’s just time to find a café and get a cup of tea!


Actually, therapy has been fine this week as I have mentally taken myself to the tea cup ride as the therapy break approaches. I don’t want to be on the big rollercoaster right now!

*This video below is kind of how I feel in therapy sometimes. It’s tragic but kind of funny! (Play with sound)


17 thoughts on “Therapy: Beware Of The Emotional Rollercoaster!

  1. Sirena July 14, 2018 / 3:18 pm

    Mines is more like the house of horrors LOL

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    • rubberbandsandchewinggum July 14, 2018 / 5:37 pm

      Poor you 😢 – still, it’s all part of the ‘fun fair’ … so in theory good will come of it! Xxxxxx.


      • Sirena July 14, 2018 / 5:54 pm


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  2. summerSHINES Queen of Quirky July 14, 2018 / 4:30 pm

    Brilliant metaphor! You’re so clever with your writing. Xxx breaking news. I’m having a therapy break for the summer so I won’t see her till the autumn but I’m having a quick phone call with her once a week. This is after my young identities told her to fuck off repeatedly in lots of emails 😂😂 xx Take care xx

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      • summerSHINES Queen of Quirky July 14, 2018 / 5:40 pm

        Eek!! No contact! You will find parts of that tough I’m sure but I know you can do it! 🤗🤗😘 Warrior 😎❤

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      • rubberbandsandchewinggum July 14, 2018 / 5:44 pm

        Well- I’ll have a few meltdowns I’m sure but I’ll get to September eventually!


  3. defraggingme July 15, 2018 / 12:53 pm

    So here’s a thing. After about the 5th year of theme parking with kids, I found myself feeling just too darned OLD to be thrown about like that any longer. It started to HURT. Is that where all this ends for therapy, too? Or do we just graduate to the Tea Cups?

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    • rubberbandsandchewinggum July 15, 2018 / 2:06 pm

      I can’t do rollercoasters at all anymore. I’m the person that camps in the cafe and looks after the bags!! The teacups are less bad but I still feel a bit motion sick. I think we’re probably all screwed!! Ha! 😬😂

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  4. E. October 23, 2018 / 10:03 am

    I’ve landed here by searching for the tag “rollercoaster” and really liked your writing. Rollercoasters make you feel like you have no stability. The same happens when it comes to emotions and feelings.
    That’s what my friend and I wrote about on our blog.
    Take a look if you want.


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